I love freedom and i hate to be controlled, that's why i started to appreciate more the freedom i have even though before i wasn't really aware of it.
 If somebody tries to be bossy with me,to give me orders or to underestimate my statute ,i might react very angrily.

 I don't like when somebody enters too much in my life and tries to plan what i have to do and what i should change about me (maybe i could care just about the person i love-i mean his opinion).

  Freedom is the best thing a human can have, we are born with this right but there are some factors as religions(excluded christian religion-just God will judge us,we don't have a leader who is punishing us for our behaviour),cultures,dictatorial governments,etc who are killing human's personality and transform him in a marionette who think and act as they wish. That is impossible for me.

 My life cannot be controlled by anybody, not even by my parents. I have always put my own restrictions and limits,i know what  to do and what not to do.

 I'm enjoying my youth but with some limits....imposed BY ME....because i want to have them and because i know where to stop,it's not necessary that somebody has to tell me that.

 I can have fun...i can drink enough to get more happy,but does not mean i will also fall under the table,i can meet with twenty men but does not mean i will also sleep with them,i can dress sexy but does not mean i am also an easy girl,i can have boyfriends of my father's age but does not mean i am a materialistic b.....

  Nobody in this world has the right to punish,not even to judge what a person does with his own life(if he doesn't harm others).
 I mean how can someone you don't know can enter in your life to judge your behaviour and to tell you should change and become.....as he/she wants?

 Why do people care how others are living their life?

 If i am like this,means i like the way i am and i don't need a stranger to tell me how i should be.
 I am a free girl who does what she likes,not what people like to see and i'm not living to please others.
 Some people seem like they stay by force around me.When you don't like a person ,you leave her alone and you go in your way,you don't return again and again to criticize and to remind her what a bad person she/he is .

 I submit just to God (as much as i can) because through Him i become free of all the temptations that make the human to be addicted. When your soul is not bound anymore on this Earth,you can finally say you are a free person...i still have a lot until there..

 I've seen so much hipocrisy and now i can surely say i am happy to live in a free country,to have a free religion (that does not allow a human to judge our behaviour) and to have my own way in life without to care what bored people talk.

 I wish for everybody to be the same and to do what you think is the best for you,without to care about gossips and critics,you might lose the chance of your life refusing something or somebody just because you think what people will say.

14 comments:

Anonymous said...

The most useful and dangerous gift given by God is freedom. Too little? You want more. Too much? You have lost the game. Only the mature in spirit can understand and put those safety limits. You have given me the impression that you have the ability to control it appropriately, but always be aware, it's like sin...

Gerasimos

jardelle said...

Free or not,if you really want to sin you can do it...for sins it's always a way...i'm not a fan of living life to it's limits,so freedom does not make me lose my mind, i just use it's benefits to the max.

Anonymous said...

Well done. I wish more people had your way of thinking. As a rock music fan, I was always wondering myself if was it worth the prize for all those incredibly talented musicians of the 60s-70s to ruin themselves having a illusion of freedom, though at the same time offering to anyone than themselves their art and idealism. I guess it was the result of a "freedom" offered by means of control, later followed by a depressing period (leading towards our messy age). And I also laugh (inside me) with some friends here I live that they think they are free (in a kind of anarchist way - nothing to do with politics) but they have so many passions they cannot control that they already belong to the opposite side. Very few can understand the freedom of spirit...
Gerasimos

jardelle said...

i know freedom can be dangerous but just in freedom you can see who you really are.
But some who think they are free don't know how much they are addicted of things they never thought of (exemple: smoking,alchool,sex,drugs).
You say you are free to take drugs but in fact you are the slave of them..so that is not freedom too.

Anonymous said...

Excactly. Be free means that at the same time you must respect other people's freedoms and personalities, so you are at the same time restricted to this. So, at least in this level of consciousness and society, there cannot be absolute and only beneficial freedom. It's only inside us.
Gerasimos

Anonymous said...

Oh, by the way, lovely picture! An angel as always
Gerasimos

*~Christine~* said...

Jardelle,
Thank you for following my blog! Wanted to come check out yours as well, and am now following! I love this entry, so true. We are given free will to make our own decisions, and only God can judge the decisions we make in the end. It's also beautiful that God, even if he disapproves of our choices, will still love us. With humans, that is not always the case. Great entry!

CCH said...

this is really beautiful girl :)

salwar said...

Its nice to hear that someone got the freedom..

jardelle said...

Thank you :)

Christie said...

inspiring post, definitely words to live by. :)

César said...

Com olhos tão lindos, quem teria medo de saltar ao precipício?

senin said...

you are very interesting,a free mind but who knows when to say stop

Giovanna said...

this is a very good post and i like how you free your mind. freedom is awesome and we should be happy to have it. you are an inspiration for life