I don't understand why so many people have a problem with those who feel good in their own skin and they are happy with themselves. Why can't them accept the idea that someone does not have the popular problems: "i am too fat", "i have small breasts", "i am ugly",etc?
Even if you are the ugliest girl in the world,if you love yourself that's the best thing you can do for your body,but with a single condition: NOT TO FORGET YOUR BODY IS JUST DUST and all is matters is the SOUL.
I find lucky those girls who love their fats and they don't feel the need to hide them ,those who are not very good looking but they radiate energy and joy of life-feelings derived from their love and acceptance with themselves.
Why do people want to see unhappy girls,always depressed because of their imperfections and who are always worried and stressed about how to lose weight or who isolate themselves from the "normal" people and live with this frustration all their life?
Why are them so worried about our personal relationship with ourselves if we, the narcissists,don't disturb them?
Why is it ok to love a celebrity,an idol but is not ok to love yourself?
When you are ok with yourself and you like your person in general,then everything is easier...you have trust in you,you are more happy,more nice with people (if you are not inflated),you don't have reasons to be jealous or to envy others and you have time to focus on important things.
The jealousy and envy come exactly from your hatred for your own person .You don't like yourself so you can't stand to see another maybe more ugly than you,but who is happy and relaxed with himself.
Everybody is special in his own way,you don't need to be beautiful ,you just need to have your own personality,don't be like a sheep who is following the flock,be you with your own ideas and that will make you different and special.
I know so many ugly and poor people but with a strong personality...they simply fascinate me.
And i also know so many beautiful people but who don't express anything,they just live for being beautiful.This is not ok too!
Maybe the best is the middle way,not to care if you are ugly or beautiful.I think this feeling comes after you have babies and you don't have time anymore for yourself.Mommies told me that but i can't imagine myself ignoring my body lol